Kai wants me to lose weight. I don't really want to. If I can't spot reduce, I'd rather not lose any at all. Toning up is the only thing I can do. But I'd still be too fat for him. I need a personal trainer to help me!
I'll be one, but I think you need someone to push you harder. because even if I told you want i have been doing, it wouldn't help you much.
you are small, you need toning, once the muscles kicks in, your fat burning shouldn't be a problem.! i will be doing some pretty intense workout this weekend! join the fun! and trust me, you are going to feel a lot better and look even better! it's gonna be a whole changing solution this retreat! come back sexier and toner!
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pahoua
9/20/2010 03:38:43 am
sorry I meant to say what i have been doing
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Minnie
9/23/2010 04:04:16 am
Yea, I'm not going to work out too hard. I've been working out, and all I've gain is more FAT and muscle!! UGh...oh well. Kai's just going to have to get fat.
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Keyah
9/23/2010 08:23:34 am
My mother-in-law says that she likes you being the way you are right now. You have a natural beauty. I thought I let you know. hehe. I show her the photos we took and that's what she says that you look better this way after having a baby. She said it in a good way.
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pahoua
9/23/2010 09:36:52 am
I agree with Nyab! you look more like a mom! isn't that what you wanted?
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pachia
9/24/2010 01:50:31 am
hey mai, i be your partner... I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY FAT TOO I JUST WANT TO TONE MY BUTT AND STOMACH... LOL
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minnie
9/24/2010 02:42:03 pm
When ogs say I look good, it means I look hecka ugly to my generation!! I do want to look more like a mom instead of a teen mom, but I don't know......:'(
I guess in a way I also want to be the type of girl kai likes. N they're those sexy skinny girls=[
He's not too bothered by my chubbyness, but it would be nice to weigh lesser than him at least.
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Mai Lee
9/26/2010 11:12:37 pm
Mai, You tell him to get a little bigger for you. He's too skinny...hehe...Then it makes perfect! I understand, we as women want to look our best for ourselves and our husband. If he doesn't love you the way you are, then there's something wrong with him. He should love you regardless of how you look. Why I say that? What happens, if 10 - 20 years from now you have more kids and you start to age. What then? Is he going to start looking wondering around?
Well, I hope that doesn't happen. I really think you both just need to understand each other. Take what you've learn this weekend and apply it to your relationship.
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Minnie
9/27/2010 03:20:37 am
It's hard for him to get fat. And I think he's insecure about being small and skinny, so maybe that's why he wants me to be skinnier. But he said he'd still run after me even if I got chubby. And I'm like... Pssh... whatever.
And for some reason, I feel like losing weight is something I have to do for myself. It's like a goal that I really want to achieve because if I don't, I'll feel a sense of failure in myself. So I want to drop some fat off my arms, legs, stomach and neck. And plus, I need to be in shape. If I don't work out, my body will age fast!! So I'm going to make it up for all the lack of working out during my teen years!
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pahoua
9/27/2010 11:10:52 am
So how was your exercise at camp? I'm still sore from the workouts!
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pahoua
9/30/2010 10:41:09 am
How was your flight? I hope you and Annie didnt get in a fight with eachother. I had this huge argument with her the other day. we were like who could say "No" the loudest. obviously I won! Update more with your blogs. I love reading your crazy, funny stories! I'm just bored, No Fbooking, no more personal website; I'm still working on it. i'll let you know when it's up. new site name, because I accidentally logged onto the site name from the surgeons dictation desk, and the search engine kept it, so that's my story. promise this will be and last change. anyways have a good time with your family. I'll be here waiting.