Anyway, unto a new subject.
My maternal grandma just had a stroke recently. Her whole situation has been tearing apart our relationships with one another amongst my mom to the aunts and uncles. My oldest uncle figured that he won't be able to take care of grandma anymore, especially after her stroke. So he put her in a nursery home My mom along with the aunts are against this because he never considered that there are other options available too for grandma. They live in Missouri, a town full of rednecks? And mainly grandma cannot speak an ounce of English. She's there all by herself everyday with no family members there for her. Only at night past 9pm, do my aunts and uncle come sleep with her. She's been complaining about how the nurses are treating her. She cries everyday, and it's just heartbreaking to hear that. The nurses would make my grandmother sit up everyday for more than 3 hours. Knowing, she has a bad back, she can only sit up for no more than a hour. And since none of the uncles or aunts are relaying any of these information to her primary nurses, she continues to suffer. She's cried to the nurses to lay her down, but the nurses just insists she sits up. Everytime, grandma lays back or tries to lay down, the nurses quickly comes up and forces her to sit. So my mom has been calling the nurses constantly telling them to stop treating her that way, they've finally stopped. My mom even told them that uncle has her life insurance money and the life insurance money also came with an illness package, and they should be calling uncle to help pay for medical costs. Uncle has not renewed her medical insurance, so that's probably why the nurses don't give a crap about my grandma? I don't care, but if I hear of any more neglect and abuse from these nurses, I'll give them hell. How can you treat an elderly person like that? Grandma even stated that one of her nurses even slapped grandma too. It's hard to believe that a nurse would really do that, but if I find out it's true, I'll make sure that biatch loses her job! Uncle has been so controlling that since he's the caretaker, he forbid the nurses to pick up anymore of my mom's calls. My mom has been so willing to pay for everything, but since she's not the caretaker, she can't do much for the nurse
My mom has been so stressed out because she loves grandma so much and is willing to go fight against my uncle to let grandma come home to us and we'll take care of her. I understand that we alone won't be able to take care of her, but she has two daughters here in MN, along with grandchildren, who's willing to sacrifice their time to help watch grandma. Because of her state of needing a nurse there 24/7, we can have her stay in a Hmong nursery home over in MN. And all of us can take turns going over there to hang out with her. Whatever she needs, whatever she wants, the Hmong nurses over here will provide for her. My mom loves grandma so much. And it's breaking my heart to see her pain. She cries a lot when she talks about grandma.
Gosh,... sometimes, I wonder if it's really the life insurance money uncle is only after. I mean,.... they did already have a coffin picked out for her and she's not even dead yet!!! ARGH..... I'm frustrated hearing about these things. But I know God has a plan for all of us. And I know my grandma has accepted Jesus Christ into her heart regardless of how against uncle is towards Christianity. I don't know how much longer grandma has with us, but I'm leaving it to God's hands. Pray for my family!