Hubby saids he doesn't want to go to the marriage counseling session tomorrow at church. He couldn't give me any answers as to why he doesn't want to go. I'm seriously hanging onto my last straw.
He better not wait til my feet hits the doors for him to start opening up to me. By then, his words will be useless to me.
Girl, I feel the same way today too. Neng got to being too busy so I just let it go too, that's was his excuse. I was excited and wanted to go even by myself but he pushed the wrong buttons and I just stayed put because I didn't want to make things worst. We actually had time to talk about our relationship. I ended up apologizing to him about throwing a fit. I guess I was assuming that he didn't want to go but he was really busy and trying to help others out. I was being selfish and thought about it. If he's helping his family I shouldn't throw a fit. I wasn't able to help because I was at work. So he double the duty and I guess I thought about it and had to apologize to him. Of all the days it had to be today. Sometimes we can't force them to do things our way but we can always pray for them to be better.
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Minnie
4/11/2010 12:00:22 pm
Hey nyab neng,
Turns out, we ended up going. Sometimes Kai knows me more than I would have thought. He knows what's going on inside my head even though I don't tell him. So since Mai and sou were going to the Japanese Garden, I told kai that we needed to up our family pics, so we should go, and he goes, "you just want me to go so we can all head straight to church. huh?" hehe... but we ended up going and turns out not a lot of people showed up. So it was a good night overall, I hope you guys can make it to the next one!!